
NECTAR
exploration, healing, connection & empowerment through boudoir photography.
why?
Because Marvin Gaye said it best,
“sexual healing is good for me.”
No but in all seriousness… why would anyone want to get hot and steamy photos? Well… I ask why not? We are sexual beings. And what better way to celebrate your passion and love than to document it- so you can SEE what you’ve been feeling. We use sex and nudity to sell just about everything. Instead, what if we start using sex and nudity to explore and heal and find freedom, in our own bodies AND with our partners.
So I want to say a couple things:
First, nudity is not inherently sexual. And there are NUDE photos and SEXY photos. Both are great- they just evoke different things. And that is okay. It’s important to decide what exactly you are wanting from our shoot. I will never ask you do something you don’t present yourself or are uncomfortable with- this session is for YOU. So I want to know exactly what youre comfortable with (and uncomfortable with) and what your vision is.
Nude photos are more about freedom, comfort, safety, realness- you and your partner stripping down and just being together. And that might look like frolicking in a field, laughing, hugging, just LIVING- while also being naked. It’s a little more of an artsy feel. Or do you want your session to feel hot & sexy & steamy? And if thats the case- HOW hot & sexy & steamy? PG-13? Making out, partially clothed? Touching, teasing, exploring bodies? Casually & romantically or explicitly & erotically?
There are no right or wrong answers here. But it’s important for you and your partner to discuss this ahead of time (and fill out the questionnaire below so I am informed)
And know that it’s okay to be a little unsure and its okay to change your mind once we’re in it (maybe once we’re in it, you feel a little spicier than you thought you would OR a little more conservative)- THAT IS OKAY!
Please don’t worry about me. Nothing surprises or shocks me. I look at these sessions as an opportunity to hold space for you, bear witness to your love and just document your connection and passion. I have found so much healing through sex and intimacy (and photoshoots) with my own partner that I view this as art and celebration. I want you to feel safe, empowered, sexy, free and in love. And if you want to feel like a pornstar, damnit I want you to feel like a pornstar!
Just KEEP IT REAL! With each other AND with me! And then, LETS MAKE MAGIC TOGETHER!!!!